Performing cunnilingus can be one of the most wonderful things you can do for a woman. It makes her feel loved, admired, sexy, and has the potential to give her an exceptional Orgasm. Many women prefer it to intercourse, and for those who require a large amount of clitoral stimulation, it is the easiest way to orgasm. Besides, lots of women expect it these days and men who perform great cunnilingus are always appreciated and considered fabulous lovers.
There is little more exciting to a woman than to know that her partner finds her delicious; meaning that you enjoy the taste, smell and feeling of her vaginal juices. At the same time, there is little less exciting to a woman than to think that you don’t like the taste and smell of her most intimate region. The smell of a woman is normally fairly mild and pleasant, being quite arousing to the partner. The type and degree of smell can vary considerably from one woman to another and at different times it may be stronger (e.g. closer to her period).
If your partner has a smell that is more than you can handle, or she doesn’t feel comfortable with you down there (thinking you won’t like the smell), suggest taking a nice hot shower or bath together. See the Bathing and Showering section for more details on how to make that bathroom experience a whole lot of fun for the both of you.
Before reading further, you may want to get acquainted with this region of her body by reading the Her Erogenous Zones section and having a look at the Female Diagram.
Remember, there is almost nothing you can do that will feel bad (so long as you are gentle), so relax! Any licking and sucking of the labia, vaginal entrance, clitoris, or anal area should feel great to your partner. Also, once you find something that works, don’t stray too far away from it unless you are moving to something that works better, or if you are teasing.
Exercises
To be able to perform for extended periods of time, there are a number of exercises that can be used to strengthen the muscles in your mouth. Here are a few tongue exercises and positions for performing cunnilingus:
Exercise 1:
Stick your tongue as far out of your mouth as possible, and then try to touch your nose. Once you are in this position, hold the same muscle groups still and begin moving your tongue around. Practice in sets, moving the tongue clockwise, counterclockwise, and up and down.
Exercise 2:
With a loose jaw, point your tongue while simultaneously trying to keep your tongue in constant contact with the top and bottom your mouth. Once you are in this position, practice moving your tongue in and out of your mouth. For the more advanced student, try keeping your mouth closed and circling your tongue around inside of it, while of course, maintaining position. An extension to the advanced exercise is trying to dissolve a lifesaver held in your teeth from the inside out.
Exercise 3:
Stick your tongue straight out of your mouth, trying to keep your tongue flat and relaxed. Slowly, while holding the position, practice curling the wide tip of the tongue upward, downward and side-to-side. Practice in five sets of ten, holding each move for 2 seconds.
Exercise 4:
Keep your tongue relaxed and open your mouth. Move your tongue in and out of your mouth forwards and in both directions. Practice in five sets of twenty.
Thursday, September 30, 2010
Wednesday, September 29, 2010
Ephebophilia
Ephebophilia is the sexual preference of adults for mid-to-late adolescents, generally ages 15 to 19. The term was originally used in the late 19th to mid 20th century, and has been more recently revisited by Ray Blanchard.[2] It is one of a number of sexual preferences across age groups subsumed under the neologism of "chronophilia". Ephebophilia strictly denotes the preference for mid-to-late adolescent sexual partners, not the mere presence of some level of sexual attraction. In sexual ethics, it may be defined as a sexual preference for girls generally 14–16 years old, and boys generally 14–19 years old. Some authors define ephebophilia as a sexual preference of pubescent and adolescent boys.
In research environments, specific terms are used for chronophilias: for instance, ephebophilia to refer to the sexual preference for mid-to-late adolescents, hebephilia to refer to the sexual preference for earlier pubescent individuals, and pedophilia to refer to the sexual preference for prepubescent children. However, the term pedophilia is commonly used to refer to any sexual interest in minors below the legal age of consent, regardless of their level of physical, mental, or psychological development. Acting upon ephebophilic preference can be illegal, for example, when the adolescent is below the legal age of consent.
In research environments, specific terms are used for chronophilias: for instance, ephebophilia to refer to the sexual preference for mid-to-late adolescents, hebephilia to refer to the sexual preference for earlier pubescent individuals, and pedophilia to refer to the sexual preference for prepubescent children. However, the term pedophilia is commonly used to refer to any sexual interest in minors below the legal age of consent, regardless of their level of physical, mental, or psychological development. Acting upon ephebophilic preference can be illegal, for example, when the adolescent is below the legal age of consent.
Monday, September 27, 2010
Phone cam guy
This guy is calls me and wants to cam for me. I am one who does not cam along with them. I do just the phone sex. Just my personal preference. I do love to watch a guy masturbate for me. There is something about the way a guy strokes his piece of meat that turns me on. He is there all naked stroking his cock and feeling so comfortable in front of the cam. He keeps chatting with me through IM. His minutes run out and wants to keep chatting with me through IM. I tell him he just needs to get off or I am closing down. He keeps fiddling with stuff on his phone and on his computer. I tell him that I am closing down and that I have no time to mess around. He had plenty of time to "get off". I don't have time to just waste or give him "free time" to watch him play. He did have a nice cock though.
Oral and nipples
This guy called up and wanted me to give him a blow job. So i proceeded to give him a blow job and he wanted to play with my nipples. I so love when a guy plays with my nipples, as long as a guy loves to make them hard and suck them too. I love to make the guy hard and cum in my mouth. It is fun to tease and fondle those balls and look into his eyes as he sees his cock in my mouth.
Saturday, September 25, 2010
How to ask a girl out
If I told you I knew how to ask a girl out on a date and have her say “yes” every time, would you want to know what I said? Probably, so I’m about to share with you what took years of trial and error to figure out: It’s not about the activity you’re inviting her out to do, but rather it’s all about how much fun she thinks she’ll have when she’s with you.
To sum it up, if follow these ways to demonstrate that you’re an attractive and fun guy to hang out with, she’ll be happy to go out with you even if she already has plans!
The Process of Asking A Women Out
There is only one reason why women will go out with men that boldly ask them out: for fun. When you go out on a date, it’s to enjoy yourself. So when you’re approaching the girl in question, if she gets the sense that you’re too serious, boring or socially awkward, anything you invite her to will naturally mean that it will be an unpleasant experience for her.
That’s why, when you meet a girl, you need to immediately have a good time with her.
There should be smiles, laughter, teasing and a playful attitude right from the start. From the second you meet, you want to have fun together. So instead of “trying to get to know someone” immediately after you meet them, you should instead concentrate on having an enjoyable time with them. Don’t worry too much about getting to know them because as you spend time with them, it will naturally come up.
Why most guys fail to get a date
Even though you might be confident, successful and fearless when it comes to approaching strangers, if you immediately dive into serious questions and try to “make them your girlfriend”. Red flags will appear in her mind and she’ll put you in the “he’s too serious” category.
Avoid this!
Does that mean that you shouldn’t discuss topics of work, school, age, (interview type questions!)? Of course you can, but very briefly! If she really wants to talk about them, you can answer her questions briefly and then suggest that you talk about them later… and then switch to a different, more interesting topic.
Make anything exciting
Keeping in mind that what we’re trying to achieve is to have a good time (for ourselves!) and demonstrate you’re a fun person to spend time with, you want to be able to make any topic of conversation entertaining. Take note: There is no perfect topic of conversation! So don’t go looking for it! Instead, talking about a movie you saw last night or even about your weekend plans will do just fine.
When you bring up these topics, talk about them with emotion and give your own personal reactions along the way. How you felt about the evening is more important than the evening itself!
Bad Example:
“We went out to an Irish Pub last night, there was a great band”
Good Example:
“I was excited to go out last night, so we went to a new Irish Pub. When I walked in, I was so surprised, couldn’t believe my eyes, it felt like I was in Ireland again. There was so much drunken energy there, I could feel it pulsating withing me as the band played. Oh yeah, I thought they were amazing… so much so that I sang at the top of my lungs as they played my favorite songs.”
Did I mention that when you talk about how you feel, you automatically have a LOT more to say about any topic. From these two stories alone, which kind of person would you want to hang out with? I’d choose the guy that seemed to have the time of his life on the weekend, and I’ll bet that the girl you’re asking out would choose the same.
Plan the logistics of the date in advance
If you want to ask a girl out, then it really helps to get this specific piece of information early on in the conversation: “What she’s up to this evening and what her schedule is like in the upcoming days.” This is pretty easy to ask early on in an interaction when you’ve just met a person and you’re getting to know them.
Just say: “So what are you up to these days?”
And listen.
She’ll tell you exactly when she’s available to do something with you, what she could potentially like to do and you might even get an interesting topic of conversation out of it! For instance, if she tells you that she’s going to do groceries, clean a little and then watch television… that’s the perfect opportunity to set up a date where you cook for her and then you watch TV together.
The trick is: Go with the flow! Even though it’s possible to make her break her plans to hang out with you, you’re just making things more difficult for yourself! If you know she’s not doing anything that evening, then invite her out! However, you’ll usually want to give her 3-4 hours to get “ready” (yes, I said 3-4 hours, women take time to get ready for a date!)
It’s your duty to ask her out
Take it upon yourself to be the man and ask her out instead of waiting for her to do it. If she feels that you’re a fun guy to be with, you’re comfortable and she has a good feeling about you, then you’re almost guaranteed a resounding “Yes” if you ask her out. Think of a date as just the next logical step in your interaction together.
Finally, remember that the secret key to how to ask a girl out is to make sure that she’s going to accept before you even ask her. If you’ve asked the right questions, you should already know when she’s available, what she’d really like to do with you and then it’s up to you to suggest it! If you’re still wondering how to get to the point where she really wants to go out with you, then I recommend reading Double Your Dating, it’s really the best starting point for guys.
To sum it up, if follow these ways to demonstrate that you’re an attractive and fun guy to hang out with, she’ll be happy to go out with you even if she already has plans!
The Process of Asking A Women Out
There is only one reason why women will go out with men that boldly ask them out: for fun. When you go out on a date, it’s to enjoy yourself. So when you’re approaching the girl in question, if she gets the sense that you’re too serious, boring or socially awkward, anything you invite her to will naturally mean that it will be an unpleasant experience for her.
That’s why, when you meet a girl, you need to immediately have a good time with her.
There should be smiles, laughter, teasing and a playful attitude right from the start. From the second you meet, you want to have fun together. So instead of “trying to get to know someone” immediately after you meet them, you should instead concentrate on having an enjoyable time with them. Don’t worry too much about getting to know them because as you spend time with them, it will naturally come up.
Why most guys fail to get a date
Even though you might be confident, successful and fearless when it comes to approaching strangers, if you immediately dive into serious questions and try to “make them your girlfriend”. Red flags will appear in her mind and she’ll put you in the “he’s too serious” category.
Avoid this!
Does that mean that you shouldn’t discuss topics of work, school, age, (interview type questions!)? Of course you can, but very briefly! If she really wants to talk about them, you can answer her questions briefly and then suggest that you talk about them later… and then switch to a different, more interesting topic.
Make anything exciting
Keeping in mind that what we’re trying to achieve is to have a good time (for ourselves!) and demonstrate you’re a fun person to spend time with, you want to be able to make any topic of conversation entertaining. Take note: There is no perfect topic of conversation! So don’t go looking for it! Instead, talking about a movie you saw last night or even about your weekend plans will do just fine.
When you bring up these topics, talk about them with emotion and give your own personal reactions along the way. How you felt about the evening is more important than the evening itself!
Bad Example:
“We went out to an Irish Pub last night, there was a great band”
Good Example:
“I was excited to go out last night, so we went to a new Irish Pub. When I walked in, I was so surprised, couldn’t believe my eyes, it felt like I was in Ireland again. There was so much drunken energy there, I could feel it pulsating withing me as the band played. Oh yeah, I thought they were amazing… so much so that I sang at the top of my lungs as they played my favorite songs.”
Did I mention that when you talk about how you feel, you automatically have a LOT more to say about any topic. From these two stories alone, which kind of person would you want to hang out with? I’d choose the guy that seemed to have the time of his life on the weekend, and I’ll bet that the girl you’re asking out would choose the same.
Plan the logistics of the date in advance
If you want to ask a girl out, then it really helps to get this specific piece of information early on in the conversation: “What she’s up to this evening and what her schedule is like in the upcoming days.” This is pretty easy to ask early on in an interaction when you’ve just met a person and you’re getting to know them.
Just say: “So what are you up to these days?”
And listen.
She’ll tell you exactly when she’s available to do something with you, what she could potentially like to do and you might even get an interesting topic of conversation out of it! For instance, if she tells you that she’s going to do groceries, clean a little and then watch television… that’s the perfect opportunity to set up a date where you cook for her and then you watch TV together.
The trick is: Go with the flow! Even though it’s possible to make her break her plans to hang out with you, you’re just making things more difficult for yourself! If you know she’s not doing anything that evening, then invite her out! However, you’ll usually want to give her 3-4 hours to get “ready” (yes, I said 3-4 hours, women take time to get ready for a date!)
It’s your duty to ask her out
Take it upon yourself to be the man and ask her out instead of waiting for her to do it. If she feels that you’re a fun guy to be with, you’re comfortable and she has a good feeling about you, then you’re almost guaranteed a resounding “Yes” if you ask her out. Think of a date as just the next logical step in your interaction together.
Finally, remember that the secret key to how to ask a girl out is to make sure that she’s going to accept before you even ask her. If you’ve asked the right questions, you should already know when she’s available, what she’d really like to do with you and then it’s up to you to suggest it! If you’re still wondering how to get to the point where she really wants to go out with you, then I recommend reading Double Your Dating, it’s really the best starting point for guys.
Friday, September 24, 2010
Sexy twister
Sexy Twister
Remember Twister? Remember all those contortionist positions (right leg green, left hand yellow) that had your body entwined with your competitors. Now, picture playing it naked with your girlfriend. The Kama Sutra of board games, all you need for naked Twister is the Twister board and your birthday suit. Spin the wheel and place your limbs where the wheel indicates, making sure not to topple over. To add some excitement, distract your opponent by licking, nuzzling, kissing, and tickling. Last man (or woman) standing wins this sex game.
Remember Twister? Remember all those contortionist positions (right leg green, left hand yellow) that had your body entwined with your competitors. Now, picture playing it naked with your girlfriend. The Kama Sutra of board games, all you need for naked Twister is the Twister board and your birthday suit. Spin the wheel and place your limbs where the wheel indicates, making sure not to topple over. To add some excitement, distract your opponent by licking, nuzzling, kissing, and tickling. Last man (or woman) standing wins this sex game.
Thursday, September 23, 2010
How to maintain a sex life
1. Stress the Emotional Bonds of Sex
Sex should be about more than just physical gratification. It's a means of enhancing your relationship with each other and of expressing the emotional connections you both share. Strive to make sex romantic and exciting. Emphasize mood enhancers like lit candles, rose petals and a romantic evening out on the town. Be aware of your partner's needs and wishes during sex and strive to make him happy as much as he makes you happy. Talk about your sex life with your partner and find out what excites him. The connections you make will improve not only your sex life, but also your connection as a couple.
2. Masturbate
"Don't knock masturbation," Woody Allen said famously, "It's sex with someone I love." While people may feel odd about masturbating when they're in a committed relationship, it can be a very helpful tool in a healthy sex life. Make it part of the sex act itself, either as a form of foreplay with your partner or as a means of "warming up" beforehand. You can also use it on your own to explore the things you find arousing and learn how to control your arousal in order to extend sexual sessions with your partner.
3. Stay in Shape
Exercise is an excellent way to raise your overall energy levels and have more stamina in the bedroom. Experts recommend cardiovascular exercise, such as running, swimming and cycling in particular. It increases the blood flow in the body and emphasizes endurance. Exercises specifically aimed at a healthy sex life can be stressed too. Tantric techniques can be explored, and more direct exercises, such as kegel exercising (strengthening the woman's vaginal muscles) and PC exercising (strengthening the man's pelvic muscles), can help as well.
4. Respect Your Partner's Wishes
This includes being attentive to her in the bedroom and seeing to her needs as much as your own. But it also includes listening when she may not be in the mood for sex or noticing when her motor is really running. Postpone sex if it doesn't feel right for her, or set aside other activities if she really wants it. You should expect your partner to reciprocate and be attentive to your needs as well. Make sex a choice rather than an obligation and seek out ways in which both of you can enjoy it every time you have it.
Sex should be about more than just physical gratification. It's a means of enhancing your relationship with each other and of expressing the emotional connections you both share. Strive to make sex romantic and exciting. Emphasize mood enhancers like lit candles, rose petals and a romantic evening out on the town. Be aware of your partner's needs and wishes during sex and strive to make him happy as much as he makes you happy. Talk about your sex life with your partner and find out what excites him. The connections you make will improve not only your sex life, but also your connection as a couple.
2. Masturbate
"Don't knock masturbation," Woody Allen said famously, "It's sex with someone I love." While people may feel odd about masturbating when they're in a committed relationship, it can be a very helpful tool in a healthy sex life. Make it part of the sex act itself, either as a form of foreplay with your partner or as a means of "warming up" beforehand. You can also use it on your own to explore the things you find arousing and learn how to control your arousal in order to extend sexual sessions with your partner.
3. Stay in Shape
Exercise is an excellent way to raise your overall energy levels and have more stamina in the bedroom. Experts recommend cardiovascular exercise, such as running, swimming and cycling in particular. It increases the blood flow in the body and emphasizes endurance. Exercises specifically aimed at a healthy sex life can be stressed too. Tantric techniques can be explored, and more direct exercises, such as kegel exercising (strengthening the woman's vaginal muscles) and PC exercising (strengthening the man's pelvic muscles), can help as well.
4. Respect Your Partner's Wishes
This includes being attentive to her in the bedroom and seeing to her needs as much as your own. But it also includes listening when she may not be in the mood for sex or noticing when her motor is really running. Postpone sex if it doesn't feel right for her, or set aside other activities if she really wants it. You should expect your partner to reciprocate and be attentive to your needs as well. Make sex a choice rather than an obligation and seek out ways in which both of you can enjoy it every time you have it.
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