Required Materials:
•A blindfold or a piece of soft material that can be used as a blindfold
•A collection of things to touch your lover with, such as feathers, silk, leather... or your tongue!
How To Play
First, decide on a prize, and then draw straws or roll dice to figure out who will be blindfolded and who will be the Tantalizer. Then place the blindfold on the person whose eyes will be covered and get ready for some fun! The Tantalizer can then do one of two things:
•Have the blindfolded person feel ten objects and try to guess what they are. Of course, this is more fun if some of the items they have to identify are the Tantalizer's body parts and other items are shaped like the Tantalizer's body parts!
•Touch the blindfolded person with ten different objects or materials and see how many they can guess correctly. Use both soft and hard materials to create a variety of arousing sensations as well as using your own skin or tongue for at least one of the ten.
Winning is based on criteria you set at the beginning. You decide how many items the blindfolded person needs to guess correctly to win. If they get that number correct, then they get the sexual prize they requested. If they get less than that number correct, the Tantalizer gets what they requested. But don't you both win, really?
Showing posts with label sex tips. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sex tips. Show all posts
Friday, October 15, 2010
Saturday, October 9, 2010
Plantation slavemistress
This roleplay was so much fun. I was able to be a plantation slavemistress. I went to a slave auction to buy a black slave. He was one who was especially naughty and difficult to manage. He came on stage to be purchased in shackles and a collar. I kept hiking my skirt up higher and higher so that he would look up my skirt. I was able to purchase him and punish him for looking up my skirt. I ended up on the stage with him using a bull whip to punish him. I made sure he knew his place. When I took him to my plantation, I made sure he knew his place in the field.
Friday, October 8, 2010
Older woman call
This guy called and has a thing for older women and for women who wear stockings. He has had this thing from the time he was little. He had an experience when he was younger that he caught a glimpse of a woman's pussy and he got a hard on. He has always been one who gets off on older women being with younger guys. He woke up this morning with a hard on because of a dream. He and I talked so much about his thing. He and I just loved chatting. It was one of things that got him off. At the end of the call, he got off by me talking about his fetish. It was a great thing.
Friday, October 1, 2010
Boost your sexual confidence
Animal magnetism, aka, mojo, is not a myth that exists solely in Austin Powers movies! If this is the case, why does it seem so few men have it? The deal is, some men are born with it while others must cultivate it. The key to developing animal magnetism is to boost sexual confidence through a series of time honored techniques.
Why should a man try to boost his sexual confidence? For one thing, today's women are far more sexually savvy and independent than they used to be. Because of this, they are seeking men who appear to know what they are doing in bed. Men who can't deliver on this unspoken promise often get rejected. If rejection and scorn happens often enough, sexual confidence can take a nosedive, becoming a feedback loop.
This is why developing animal magnetism and sexual confidence becomes mandatory.
Luckily, there are several steps one can take to boost sexual confidence and kick animal magnetism in high gear.
Sexual Confidence Tip #1: Baby You Are So Hot!
Every guy can recount at least one scenario where an unattractive guy had some gorgeous chick slobbering all over him! What was this man's secret to sexual confidence?
Simple.
He didn't let the fact that he wasn't Brad Pitt hold him back. Instead, he developed the traits that most beautiful woman seek in a man, namely,
* He was honest and genuine–lovely women grow weary of men trying to land them in bed all the time. Eventually, they become hip to the games, only responding to real motivations.
* He treated her like a queen (not just financially, but emotionally as well).
* He was confident because he'd developed sexual techniques to keep said princess happy in bed, upping his animal magnetism.
In other words, you can look like Danny Devito, but if you heed the above sexual confidence tips, no woman will be able to resist you. No doubt about it! Being alluring to lovelies is a surefire way to boost your sexual confidence.
Sexual Confidence Tip #2: Walk On The Wild Side
Raw energy is like catnip to women. We are, after all animals, whether we like to admit it or not. While I wouldn't suggest acting like a Neanderthal, I will say that there are reasons why women appear to like assholes. Such males tend to have a machismo lacking in milder men. They are dangerous and take risks. If a nice guy knew how to amp up his own sexual confidence by letting the tiger out every once in a while, it would make a woman feel as if he is untamed.
This would be absolutely alluring…captivating even…
Develop the fine lines between getting in touch with the wild part of you and maintaining a hint of the gentleman (this is similar to the “woman has to be classy in public, but a freak in bed” philosophy).
Sexual Confidence Tip #3: Relax
Sex is not the “end all, be all” acquisition of the male and female relationship dynamic. If you appear as if sex is the last thing on your mind, you are more likely to attain it. Think about it. Would you want to date a chick that was obviously after what was in your wallet? Of course not! Likewise, no woman wants to be pursued just for what is between her legs.
A sub header to relaxing is realizing that rejection is not the end of the world. There are plenty of fish in the sea and not all rejection is personal. For instance, a woman could have a very complicated set of circumstances that make it difficult to get involved. Since people don't usually divulge their personal issues, they won't explain their reasons. Accepting that no doesn't mean you are a loser, will allow you to boost your sexual confidence to a point where most women will actually say yes (remember, no one likes desperation)…
How do you boost your sexual confidence? Know you are hot stuff, get in touch with your inner wild man, and relax. Becoming more self–assured will create an appealing sexual confidence. This is the ultimate key to developing animal magnetism that will one day have the woman of your dreams eating out of the palm of your hand!
Why should a man try to boost his sexual confidence? For one thing, today's women are far more sexually savvy and independent than they used to be. Because of this, they are seeking men who appear to know what they are doing in bed. Men who can't deliver on this unspoken promise often get rejected. If rejection and scorn happens often enough, sexual confidence can take a nosedive, becoming a feedback loop.
This is why developing animal magnetism and sexual confidence becomes mandatory.
Luckily, there are several steps one can take to boost sexual confidence and kick animal magnetism in high gear.
Sexual Confidence Tip #1: Baby You Are So Hot!
Every guy can recount at least one scenario where an unattractive guy had some gorgeous chick slobbering all over him! What was this man's secret to sexual confidence?
Simple.
He didn't let the fact that he wasn't Brad Pitt hold him back. Instead, he developed the traits that most beautiful woman seek in a man, namely,
* He was honest and genuine–lovely women grow weary of men trying to land them in bed all the time. Eventually, they become hip to the games, only responding to real motivations.
* He treated her like a queen (not just financially, but emotionally as well).
* He was confident because he'd developed sexual techniques to keep said princess happy in bed, upping his animal magnetism.
In other words, you can look like Danny Devito, but if you heed the above sexual confidence tips, no woman will be able to resist you. No doubt about it! Being alluring to lovelies is a surefire way to boost your sexual confidence.
Sexual Confidence Tip #2: Walk On The Wild Side
Raw energy is like catnip to women. We are, after all animals, whether we like to admit it or not. While I wouldn't suggest acting like a Neanderthal, I will say that there are reasons why women appear to like assholes. Such males tend to have a machismo lacking in milder men. They are dangerous and take risks. If a nice guy knew how to amp up his own sexual confidence by letting the tiger out every once in a while, it would make a woman feel as if he is untamed.
This would be absolutely alluring…captivating even…
Develop the fine lines between getting in touch with the wild part of you and maintaining a hint of the gentleman (this is similar to the “woman has to be classy in public, but a freak in bed” philosophy).
Sexual Confidence Tip #3: Relax
Sex is not the “end all, be all” acquisition of the male and female relationship dynamic. If you appear as if sex is the last thing on your mind, you are more likely to attain it. Think about it. Would you want to date a chick that was obviously after what was in your wallet? Of course not! Likewise, no woman wants to be pursued just for what is between her legs.
A sub header to relaxing is realizing that rejection is not the end of the world. There are plenty of fish in the sea and not all rejection is personal. For instance, a woman could have a very complicated set of circumstances that make it difficult to get involved. Since people don't usually divulge their personal issues, they won't explain their reasons. Accepting that no doesn't mean you are a loser, will allow you to boost your sexual confidence to a point where most women will actually say yes (remember, no one likes desperation)…
How do you boost your sexual confidence? Know you are hot stuff, get in touch with your inner wild man, and relax. Becoming more self–assured will create an appealing sexual confidence. This is the ultimate key to developing animal magnetism that will one day have the woman of your dreams eating out of the palm of your hand!
Thursday, September 30, 2010
Cunnilingus (oral sex)
Performing cunnilingus can be one of the most wonderful things you can do for a woman. It makes her feel loved, admired, sexy, and has the potential to give her an exceptional Orgasm. Many women prefer it to intercourse, and for those who require a large amount of clitoral stimulation, it is the easiest way to orgasm. Besides, lots of women expect it these days and men who perform great cunnilingus are always appreciated and considered fabulous lovers.
There is little more exciting to a woman than to know that her partner finds her delicious; meaning that you enjoy the taste, smell and feeling of her vaginal juices. At the same time, there is little less exciting to a woman than to think that you don’t like the taste and smell of her most intimate region. The smell of a woman is normally fairly mild and pleasant, being quite arousing to the partner. The type and degree of smell can vary considerably from one woman to another and at different times it may be stronger (e.g. closer to her period).
If your partner has a smell that is more than you can handle, or she doesn’t feel comfortable with you down there (thinking you won’t like the smell), suggest taking a nice hot shower or bath together. See the Bathing and Showering section for more details on how to make that bathroom experience a whole lot of fun for the both of you.
Before reading further, you may want to get acquainted with this region of her body by reading the Her Erogenous Zones section and having a look at the Female Diagram.
Remember, there is almost nothing you can do that will feel bad (so long as you are gentle), so relax! Any licking and sucking of the labia, vaginal entrance, clitoris, or anal area should feel great to your partner. Also, once you find something that works, don’t stray too far away from it unless you are moving to something that works better, or if you are teasing.
Exercises
To be able to perform for extended periods of time, there are a number of exercises that can be used to strengthen the muscles in your mouth. Here are a few tongue exercises and positions for performing cunnilingus:
Exercise 1:
Stick your tongue as far out of your mouth as possible, and then try to touch your nose. Once you are in this position, hold the same muscle groups still and begin moving your tongue around. Practice in sets, moving the tongue clockwise, counterclockwise, and up and down.
Exercise 2:
With a loose jaw, point your tongue while simultaneously trying to keep your tongue in constant contact with the top and bottom your mouth. Once you are in this position, practice moving your tongue in and out of your mouth. For the more advanced student, try keeping your mouth closed and circling your tongue around inside of it, while of course, maintaining position. An extension to the advanced exercise is trying to dissolve a lifesaver held in your teeth from the inside out.
Exercise 3:
Stick your tongue straight out of your mouth, trying to keep your tongue flat and relaxed. Slowly, while holding the position, practice curling the wide tip of the tongue upward, downward and side-to-side. Practice in five sets of ten, holding each move for 2 seconds.
Exercise 4:
Keep your tongue relaxed and open your mouth. Move your tongue in and out of your mouth forwards and in both directions. Practice in five sets of twenty.
There is little more exciting to a woman than to know that her partner finds her delicious; meaning that you enjoy the taste, smell and feeling of her vaginal juices. At the same time, there is little less exciting to a woman than to think that you don’t like the taste and smell of her most intimate region. The smell of a woman is normally fairly mild and pleasant, being quite arousing to the partner. The type and degree of smell can vary considerably from one woman to another and at different times it may be stronger (e.g. closer to her period).
If your partner has a smell that is more than you can handle, or she doesn’t feel comfortable with you down there (thinking you won’t like the smell), suggest taking a nice hot shower or bath together. See the Bathing and Showering section for more details on how to make that bathroom experience a whole lot of fun for the both of you.
Before reading further, you may want to get acquainted with this region of her body by reading the Her Erogenous Zones section and having a look at the Female Diagram.
Remember, there is almost nothing you can do that will feel bad (so long as you are gentle), so relax! Any licking and sucking of the labia, vaginal entrance, clitoris, or anal area should feel great to your partner. Also, once you find something that works, don’t stray too far away from it unless you are moving to something that works better, or if you are teasing.
Exercises
To be able to perform for extended periods of time, there are a number of exercises that can be used to strengthen the muscles in your mouth. Here are a few tongue exercises and positions for performing cunnilingus:
Exercise 1:
Stick your tongue as far out of your mouth as possible, and then try to touch your nose. Once you are in this position, hold the same muscle groups still and begin moving your tongue around. Practice in sets, moving the tongue clockwise, counterclockwise, and up and down.
Exercise 2:
With a loose jaw, point your tongue while simultaneously trying to keep your tongue in constant contact with the top and bottom your mouth. Once you are in this position, practice moving your tongue in and out of your mouth. For the more advanced student, try keeping your mouth closed and circling your tongue around inside of it, while of course, maintaining position. An extension to the advanced exercise is trying to dissolve a lifesaver held in your teeth from the inside out.
Exercise 3:
Stick your tongue straight out of your mouth, trying to keep your tongue flat and relaxed. Slowly, while holding the position, practice curling the wide tip of the tongue upward, downward and side-to-side. Practice in five sets of ten, holding each move for 2 seconds.
Exercise 4:
Keep your tongue relaxed and open your mouth. Move your tongue in and out of your mouth forwards and in both directions. Practice in five sets of twenty.
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